For the past three weeks I’ve been living in Copan Ruinas, Honduras, spending 4 hours a day in 1 on 1 intensive Spanish classes, and an average of 2 hours studying Spanish or speaking with my host family or other local families. This has been an almost unprecedented time of rewarding work, so I’ve included both a Top Seven List about learning second languages, as well as a more detailed explanation of my experience intensively studying a second language.
Hanging out with my host mom, Sara, in front of their house. Door frames are my enemy in Honduras. |
My Top Seven:
If you have ever spent time learning a second language, you know these to be true.
Learning a Second Language is Like…
- 1) Boxing- Some days you just get beat down and your face stops working.
- 2) Laughing-It’s alright to do alone, but the true beauty comes in sharing it with others.
- 3) A Bad Pun – It’s frustratingly awesome
- 4) A Headlamp – It’s extremely useful … If you remember it. (thanks for those two, Alissa).
- 5) Building a Sandcastle- If you turn your back on it for even a short of time, it might just all be gone.
- 6) Climbing a Mountain- All of a sudden you look back, and you’ve actually gone pretty far
- 7) Climbing a Mountain- And then you crest a ridge, and realize the top is still 10,000 feet away.
Spending quality time with Dunia, my Spanish Language Teacher |
The Method Behind the Madness
I’m in the process of pursuing one of my life goals: learn a new language every decade. So far, I’m a bit behind. I spent years my first decade (0-10) mastering English (wooh!), wasted away my 10-20s, and am now playing catch up with the and trying to learn two more languages from 20-30.
Since January I’ve been spending an average of an hour per day learning Spanish; This includes a million vocab words (.1% I remember), hours practicing speaking Spanish, learning vocabulary, and listening to as many Spanish songs as I could find.
And I then I was fluent!
Haha, no that is not how it works. Five months and 250+ hours of Spanish later, I still have a huge amount to learn. So here are some fun lessons from self-study and intensive language school.
- Nothing has worked my brain like this… ever Speaking/learning a new language for 5-8 hours a day is probably the best way to work out your brain. After four hours of Spanish during my first day of language school, my brain felt that it had run the equivalent of a mental marathon. It’s a feeling that I can never remember having until this moment. Friends, I could use a million work out sayings to explain this phenomenon, but this one is simplest; If you aren’t sore the next day, you probably aren’t working hard enough.
- And then I found $20… I couldn’t tell a story in Spanish to save my life. I simply don’t have the linguistic prowess to speak in a captivating manner and remember the correct words. And right when I hit the punch line or climax of the story, I somehow manage to forget the correct verb tense or phrase to end the tale. It’s like when someone forgets the ending to a joke, and even when they remember the line it’s not funny anymore. This five seconds of silence brings the story to a sighful ending, and me to my next point..
- I’m trying to talk, but all I hear is silence… You know that one time during the day where just can’t think of the right word? You ask your friends, and eventually you figure out how to get across exactly what you wanted to say. Well imagine if this happened to you every other sentence. Now I’m definitely getting better. Today I got pretty excited because I strung together a few decently complicated sentences and said them quite quickly. And then I fell apart and sat there for five seconds trying to think of the past tense for estar (to be).
- Can You Hear Me Now?... I’ve never realized the variety of listening that I do during a normal day, or how hard it is to listen in certain situations. I’ve gotten to the point to where if I’m talking to someone 1 on 1 in Spanish, I can pretty much understand everything that they say. This completely changes if I can’t see the person (lips/gestures are important), if there is a lot of background noise, or if the lips don’t match the words (dubbed over movies). I guess I just never thought that I would reach a point where I can understand perfectly in certain situations, but not at all of one small factor changes.
Celebrating the joys of learning a second language with Andrew, a fellow student, and crazy masks we got at our host sister's wedding. |
So what is the point of this post? Learning a new language is a way to connect with other cultures, expand and challenge your mind, and pick up an extremely valuable career skill. And it’s one of the most fun things I’ve ever done. So if you’ve already completed this and more, you have my utmost respect. If you are like me and have wasted a solid majority of your life not learning a second language, now seems about just the right time to start.
Much love from Honduras,
Kurt